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From a small acorn a large oak tree grows: The forest exists within you

  • underthebavariansu
  • May 2
  • 5 min read

Updated: May 30

Humble beginnings create meaningful growth

Big dreams often start with small steps. Just like a towering oak tree begins its life as a tiny acorn, our own growth and success often emerge from humble beginnings. The key is to plant those seeds, nurture them, and have the patience to see what grows. And sometimes, the best strategy is to plant many seeds, exploring multiple paths, to discover what flourishes.

 

The beauty of starting small

We tend to underestimate how powerful small steps can be. In cultures that praises big moves and fast outcomes, starting small can feel insignificant. However, it is truly the secret sauce behind it all. Real momentum comes from showing up consistently, even in quiet, simple ways.


One clear action, no matter how minor it may seem, can spark the clarity or lighten up the pathway you need to move forward. It’s not about taking a giant leap -- it’s about doing what’s available to you today, and letting that be enough to begin. The acorn doesn’t become an oak overnight, and neither do we.

Many acorns -- many potential trees

When you’re exploring what’s next, whether in your career, your creativity, or your personal life, it helps to experiment. The more things you try, the more data you gather about what energizes you, challenges you, or even opens up new doors or pathways all together.


Not everything you try will work out and that’s exactly the point. Some ideas will fall flat. Others may shift into something you never saw coming or believed were possible. But none of it is wasted. What doesn’t take off still teaches you something meaningful. Nothing is a failure, for it is all feedback, growth and all a vital part of the process. The more you allow room for things not to go as planned, the more possibilities you create for discovery, clarity and expansion.


Trying many things isn’t about being scattered -- it’s about staying open. Open to learning, to growth and to future versions of yourself you haven’t met yet.

 

How to start your garden (...and keep growing)

Here are five ways to begin:

  1. Set one small goal: Pick one small, achievable action that connects with your larger dream. Big visions often feel inspiring but paralyzing, like writing a book, launching a business, or changing careers. Instead of aiming to tackle the whole mountain at once, start with one step you can complete today. If you want to write a novel, commit to 100 words a day. If you want to get in shape, start with a 5-minute walk. The key is consistency over intensity. Small actions bypass overwhelm and build momentum. Set your goal by asking: What is one thing I can do today that’s too small to fail but still moves me forward? Write it down, schedule it, and repeat it until it becomes second nature. Then, pick the next small thing and repeat. You’re not just moving closer to your vision you’re also becoming the person who can achieve it.

  2. Explore multiple interests: Growth isn’t linear and your future might come from unexpected directions. Let go of the pressure to “find your one thing” and instead follow your curiosity in small but intentional ways. Take that class you’ve been eyeing. Join a meetup or online community in a field you know little about. Pick up a hobby purely for joy, not productivity. These experiments expand your worldview and expose you to skills, ideas, and connections you might never find otherwise. Make space in your schedule, even 30 minutes a week, and dedicate it to play, exploration, and discovery. Keep a log of what you try and how it feels. Notice what energizes you and what drains you. Over time, patterns emerge, and from those, a more authentic direction can grow.

  3. Nurture what resonates: Life leaves clues. Pay attention to the small moments that spark curiosity, create a sense of calm, or make you feel quietly energized. These are your glimmers. They often show up in subtle ways: losing track of time while doing something, feeling unexpectedly at ease in a certain space, or getting excited about a topic you just heard. Start noticing them by tuning into your body: what activities make you feel open, light, or steady? Keep a simple “glimmer log” at the end of each day, jotting down what felt good, easy, or engaging. When something resonates, even just a little, lean in. Give it your time, attention, and space to grow. Over time, you’ll start to see patterns. These glimmers are gentle guideposts, signs of what matters most to you, and when you nurture them, you begin creating a life that feels more aligned and alive.

  4. Celebrate growth early and often: Progress, especially in the beginning, is often quiet and invisible to others, but it matters deeply. Every time you push past hesitation, try something new, or stick to your habit, you’re reinforcing your capacity to grow. Don’t wait for huge milestones to validate your efforts. Celebrate trying. Celebrate showing up. Create your own ritual for recognizing progress: write a nightly “done” list, record voice notes of what you accomplished, or take a moment each Friday to acknowledge three things that moved you forward. These acts of recognition are powerful motivators. They build trust with yourself and remind you that growth isn’t just about the result, it’s about the process you’re committing to.

  5. Be patient yet persistent: Real growth takes time. This time will include quiet stretches, setbacks, and days when it feels like nothing’s working. Expect them. They’re not signs you’re off track, they’re signs you’re in it. Patience is trusting that your consistent efforts are taking root, even when progress isn’t visible. Persistence also isn't synonymous with pushing endlessly. It means staying connected to your path in a way that’s sustainable. That includes rest. Rest is not a reward you earn, it’s part of the rhythm of showing up. Taking breaks, slowing down, and tending to your well-being are forms of persistence, too. Build simple routines that help you keep going: habit pairings, weekly check-ins, or visual progress tracking. When it gets hard, return to your why. Remember (and celebrate) how far you’ve come, not just how far you have to go. The work you’re doing matters even when it’s underground or in the form of rest.

 

Remember to trust the Process

It can be tempting to want immediate results, but true growth often unfolds gradually. Trust that the seeds you plant today will grow into something remarkable if you nurture them with consistency and care. And remember, it’s not just about the end result. The journey of planting, exploring, and learning is where the real magic happens.

 

The takeaway

From a small acorn, a large oak tree grows. And when you sprinkle many acorns, explore multiple paths, you create even more opportunities for growth and discovery. Start small, stay curious and trust in your ability to cultivate something extraordinary. Remember an acorn never questions if it is worthy of becoming and oak tree, it just does. And your oak tree is waiting to grow.

 
 
 
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